The Day a Seven-Year-Old Cried for Bob Knight
There is a space of flooring in my parent’s room that will always be sacred to me. It is an area that starts roughly four steps into the room and extends about six feet back to my mom’s nightstand. And within this area, stretched out on the floor with my feet pointed to the room’s back wall, I have watched many a big game with mom and dad.
One of the earliest contests I can remember viewing from this special place was the 1975 NCAA basketball tournament Mideast regional final game between Indiana and Kentucky. I was all of seven years old and I was just becoming aware of the world of sports. I can’t recall if I had picked it up from the Detroit Free Press sports section, or simply heard the announcers talk about it, but I was aware that Indiana was riding an undefeated season. I also was aware that I shared the same first name with Indiana’s star player, Scott May. However, when May took the floor he was wearing a cast on his arm. I think the sight of the injured forward was when my heart began to feel soft, but my emotions and senses also were focused on the fiery Indiana coach who wore a plaid sports jacket and appeared to be close to my parent’s age. The coach was known as “Bobby” Knight in those days and something inside of me felt compelled to cheer for this man and his team.
Although I was just beginning to study sports in earnest, I was equally deep into comic books and sometimes the two worlds merged. Viewing the game with my comic book perspective, I had no doubt in my mind that the team I deemed the good guys—the Indiana Hoosiers—would prevail. Just like watching a Batman cartoon, I began to feel ill whenever the Kentucky team appeared to be getting the best of my heroes, but I still had my comic book faith that the team I latched onto would prevail in the end. But on that afternoon I learned a lesson that the team I assign special status to will not always come out on top as the Wildcats won that day, 92-90.
I didn’t say anything to my parents immediately after the game. For that matter, I had watched most of the game in silence as I tried to take everything in while learning what to me was a new world called sports. There may have been another tournament game on TV afterwards, but if there was, my mind remained on the Indiana-Kentucky contest. At some point I made the short trek down the hall to my room and that’s when my eyes watered. Not only did I learn that my teams will not always win no matter how hard I root, but that game also revealed to me the beauty of spectator sports, because putting yourself in another person’s shoes and wanting the best for them is indeed a beautiful thing.
The following season, Indiana would once again head into the NCAA basketball tournament undefeated, and I rooted for them all the way, even when they played and defeated a team from my state—the University of Michigan—in the championship game. Even as I quietly celebrated Indiana’s 1976 championship from my special place in my parents’ room, I still found myself thinking back to the Kentucky game a year earlier. As the years passed, the coach I cared about in 1975 became known as “Bob” Knight and he would do things that I did not care for as I watched him with more mature eyes. But even as I sometimes questioned Bob Knight’s actions, I often found myself thinking about that 1975 Mideast regional final played in Dayton, Ohio, and once those thoughts sank in, more times than not I gave the “General” a pass.
As I watch tonight’s Indiana-Kentucky game of this year’s NCAA tournament, I know I am going to think back to that game in 1975, because it is already very much on my mind. Tonight I don’t plan to shed a tear for the winner or loser, but having those memories is sure to make this game that much more special in my heart and mind.